Why dog training is not one-size-fits-all…
In-person, 1-to-1 dog training tailored to real dogs and real life
Dog training is often portrayed in a kind of ‘textbook’ way, following a set of rules, use a specific method, suggesting that every dog will respond in the same way. In reality, nothing could be further from the truth. Just like people, dogs are individuals with unique personalities, learning styles, motivations, and life experiences.
As an in-person dog trainer working across south London, I see much more effective progress when training is tailored to the individual - not forced into a one-size-fits-all approach. Whether you’re dealing with reactivity, raising a puppy, or simply want calmer walks, personalised training delivers real change, not quick fixes.
Treating dogs as individuals
It’s so obvious to say ‘every dog is an individual’. Of course they are. But often people are looking at this on face value rather than on a deeper level. Dogs differ in far more ways than just breed and the initial temperament you can see. While breed traits can influence behavior, they don’t define the whole character of a dog. Factors that shape how a dog learns and behaves include:
Temperament and personality (confident, cautious, sensitive, independent)
Age and life stage (puppy, adolescent, adult, senior)
Past experiences (rescue background, trauma, lack of socialisation)
Motivation (food-driven, toy-driven, praise-driven, environment-driven)
Energy levels and arousal thresholds
A method that works beautifully for a confident, food-motivated dog may completely fail with a shy dog. Recognising these differences is the foundation of successful dog training.
Learning styles matter in dog training
Just as we learn in different ways, dogs process information in different ways too. Some dogs thrive with repetition and structure, others need variety to stay engaged. Some dogs want to work and learn quickly, while some need more guidance and reassurance.
For example a super confident dog may enjoy an early introduction of problem-solving games whilst a sensitive dog may shut down if training progresses too quickly or feels confusing.
Tailoring training to your dog’s learning style reduces frustration from both you as a guardian and your dog, and helps you both succeed faster.
Motivation is not the same for all dogs
One of the biggest mistakes in over generalising dog training is assuming all dogs are motivated by the same rewards. Ludo loves food for example, but Norah will often refuse it and thrives off play. While treats are effective for many dogs, they are not the only (or always the best) way to encourage the behaviour we want to see.
Some dogs work best for:
High-value food rewards
Toys and play
Praise and affection
Access to the environment (sniffing, running)
Understanding what your dog truly values allows you to reinforce behaviours effectively. A dog isn't being 'stubborn' when they refuse rewards - they're simply either over threshold or not being offered the right thing.
Emotional state affects behaviour
A dog’s emotional state plays a huge role in their ability to learn and respond. Fear, stress, excitement, and anxiety all influence behaviour.
Again my two dogs are good examples. Ludo is Mr Reliable. His behaviour is very consistent throughout each day. Whereas Norah can massively vary with her mood. In the same situations on different days she can be gentle and calm, other times she's fired up. Sometimes she's shy and reserved and other times super sociable and looking for attention.
A one-size-fits-all approach may ignore similar emotional factors, pushing dogs beyond what they can handle (over threshold). Personalised dog training takes emotional well-being into account by:
Adjusting difficulty levels
Managing the environment
Allowing the dog to feel safe and confident
Building skills gradually
When dogs feel secure and understood, learning becomes easier and more reliable.
How I tailor training to your dog
All training is delivered 1-2-1 and in person, so sessions can be adapted in real time to suit both you and your dog. There are no generic plans, only ones that make sense for your dog, your home, and your local area.
I tailor my training by:
Working at your dog’s emotional and behavioural threshold
Training in real-world environments - for example across South London
Adjusting techniques based on the way your dog responds, not imposing rigid rules
Supporting owners with clear, practical guidance they can apply daily
Personalised dog training doesn’t have to be complicated. Start by observing your dog closely and asking a few key questions:
What motivates my dog the most?
How does my dog respond to new challenges?
Does my dog become stressed easily, or thrive under pressure?
What environments help my dog focus best?
From there you can adjust:
Using rewards your dog truly values
Keeping sessions the right length for your dog’s attention span
Progressing at a pace your dog can handle
Modifying techniques based on feedback from your dog
Personalised dog training in south London: services & areas I cover
I offer in-person dog training because hands-on support delivers better results, especially for behavioural challenges.
Training services:
1-2-1 dog training – tailored support for everyday training goals
Reactive dog training – specialised help for dogs who struggle on walks, around other dogs, or in busy environments
Puppy classes – launching late March, focused on confidence, calm behaviour, and real-world skills from the start. You can sign up here for early access and discount!
I work with dog owners across South London, including:
Streatham, Tooting, Clapham, Dulwich, Crystal Palace, Wimbledon, Fulham
If you’re based further afield and unsure whether I cover your area, feel free to get in touch.
Looking for a dog trainer in south London?
If you’re struggling with reactivity, feeling overwhelmed by conflicting advice, or simply want training that fits your dog I’d love to help.
I work closely with dog owners across south London to create calmer walks, clearer communication, and more confident dogs through ethical, personalised training.
You can book a free consultation here or learn more about in-person dog training in South London.